Does this make me a prude?


I’m 18 and a girl. I’m not religious or conservative and wasn’t raised in a strict household or anything like that.

I have had sex before and have a high sex drive but I absolutely hate it when people talk about sex. I find it so annoying when some girls openly describe to tons of people about the…

Not in the least- it’s a sign of maturity. I wish more young women were like you. As far as I’m concerned, you’re the perfect young lady in terms of how you keep your personal affairs to yourself. I can’t stand when people discuss their business in a group setting. I would never discuss my personal sexual encounters and I can’t stand when people do this. I’m hardly a “prude” (sorry I’m a guy but I’m not a native English speaker so I don’t know how to say this for a man) but I refuse to discuss such private information with others. It’s terribly disrespectful and a sign of immaturity when young men or women do this.

I would be so happy with a young lady who had your attitude about this.

*Again, sorry for my English errors as I am still learning the language usage and have trouble with much of the structure.

I don’t know if you’re a prude but you could probably lighten up a bit. Sex doesn’t have to be taken so seriously all the time… and it is perfectly healthy to be able to talk openly or have a laugh about it sometimes.

lol @ you telling everyone on Y!A about your boyfriend’s big penis!

“Prude” is a buzz word with a negative connotation. I think what you are really asking is, are you wrong to be uncomfortable when people talk freely about sex.

Of course the answer is no, you have every right to be uncomfortable and to avoid such conversations. Conversely, other people have every right to enjoy discussions of sex and not to be uncomfortable about it.

All you have to do is leave such conversations, or say kindly that you don’t feel like taking about that subject right then.

You don’t like to talk about sex- But you like having sex

You don’t like people talking about penises- But you say your boyfriend is quite good

I say you’re a combination of both.

You just bragged to millions of people about your boyfriend’s penis. So you’re not that prudish.

You aren’t a prude. You have tact.

No. It shows you are respectful of your partner.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *